This article discusses the recent case of an 18-year-old mother in Reynoldsburg and her 2-year-old son. Earlier this month, she used Facebook Live to stream an incident in her home. The mother claims she was trying to clean but her son was in the way, so she taped him to the wall with shipping tape. In addition, she taped his mouth shut. Ultimately, she has been arrested and is awaiting trial.
I found this interesting for many reasons. In the video, she claimed “she doesn’t use physical abuse, she uses tape.” She also said it's her son and she could "hang him upside down if she wanted to." This reminded me somewhat of our debate in class the other day about spanking. What one person sees as abuse and going too far, others don’t. But does that matter? Does an intent to harm matter? If abuse is abuse, then it wouldn’t. But, as usual, opinions and beliefs differ. It seems she believed that since he is her son, she could treat him however she wished.
Also, unfortunately, this child is currently in foster care. Although I am not in the field of child welfare, I was under the impression CPS usually attempts to place a child in kinship care, if possible. If I’m correct, then this may mean the child has no family available to take him in. Ultimately, what is going to happen to him? How scary must that be for him - to be abused by his mother and then taken into foster care. I’m curious how long he will stay in the foster care system. Also, if there is no family to take him in, I would be interested to know if the mother had much social support, and if that has had an impact on her actions at all.
Lastly, what role does social media play in the area of child welfare? If she hadn't live streamed that, would anyone have ever known? Would she have ever been reported? I'd be curious to know if more parents are reported to CPS due to incidents like this on Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, etc.